She was the first friend I made at my first job after I left the Air Force and gosh did I need a friend! She took me under her wing and for the first few months I followed her around learning everything about the industry and the technology we sold. One of my favorite memories was a road trip where we were going to teach a class and had a free day so we went to see the movie Spaceballs. For the rest of my life, when I think of my friend, I’ll think of the line “May the Schwartz be with you!”

Craig Wiesner

She was the first person at work I came out to as gay, and she and her husband were among the few work friends to attend my wedding. Later they started their own business, doing computer support and for the first year or so they did quite well. Then the economy took a nosedive and their business dried up, her mother died, and they took what money they had and tried to reestablish their lives in North Carolina. One big problem was that she couldn’t get health insurance. She had a pre-existing condition and no one would cover her. Derrick and I also started our own business and one of our biggest expenses was health insurance. At one point the premium went through the roof and I called the insurance company to ask what was going on and the agent was quite frank. “We really don’t want your business any more.”

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Craig Wiesner is the co-owner of Reach And Teach, a book, toy and cultural gift shop on San Carlos Avenue in San Carlos. Follow Craig: craigwiesner.bsky.social.

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(4) comments

Jorg

Craig: The best I can say about those Republicans, is that they, have no idea what they are doing. The worst I can say, is that they know exactly what they are doing, and intentionally so!

Terence Y

Thanks for your column today, Mr. Wiesner, however you forgot to mention that Medicare cuts cut off money to folks in our country illegally (https://waysandmeans.house.gov/2025/06/02/the-one-big-beautiful-bill-ends-taxpayer-funded-health-benefits-for-illegal-immigrants/). That fact makes a big difference in your narrative and which is why the One Big Beautiful Bill was passed by Congress and signed by Trump.

Meanwhile, may the Schwartz be with us as we resist the resistance. I recommend folks do their patriotic and civic duty and inform the proper federal authorities if they know of instances where biological boys are allowed to compete against biological females. If they know of employers using laborers which they should not be using. If they know of federal aid being given to non-citizens. And the list goes on to make America great again. Let’s get to work.

Rscollins

Thanks Craig for a great article yesterday. Just an fyi, it’s called Covered California. the website is www.coveredca.com. CalforniaCare is a

Blue Cross HMO product. I sold health insurance for 41 years and I had many clients with stories like yours. Thanks again for shining a light on this topic.

craigwiesner

Thank you! And thanks for the correction.

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