Matt Grocott

For some, the big deal this time of year begins the day after Thanksgiving, It is known as “Black Friday.” Why it is called that, I don’t know. If you care to clue me in, feel free to do so. Honestly, though, I am not much interested. You won’t find me lining up outside a store, clamoring to get inside as soon as the doors open. No, rather than focus on this being the season to shop, I choose to focus on this being the season of Advent.

Advent begins the fourth Sunday before Christmas. It is the season Christians anticipate and celebrate the birth of Christ, the arrival of the Son of God into the world.

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(15) comments

Lou

Thank you, Matt, Well said and beautiful. Merry Christmas to all.

"God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;

The Wrong shall fail,

The Right prevail,

With peace on earth, good-will to men.”

Barb Valley

One hundred fifty-eight years after Longfellow penned the poem “Christmas Bells,” there is no peace on earth for hate is still strong.

Ray Fowler

Are you at peace?

Barb Valley

I am.

Ray Fowler

Barb

I am glad to hear you are at peace. Kindness will come from that peace.

Barb Valley

Ray, I am sorry I misinterpreted your comment. The problem with the written word, there is no inflection or intonation.

Barb Valley

Ray, are you implying I'm unkind?

Ray Fowler

Barb

In a word... "No."

With so much dissension and acrimony swirling around us, we need more kindness spread around, and I feel someone who is at peace can bring much needed kindness into this world. You can bring that kindness because you are at peace... kindness that is "as far as the east is from the west" removed from unkindness.

Ray Fowler

Barb

Sorry if you thought I implied you were unkind. I didn't think my comment saying you being at peace will bring kindness suggested unkindness of any sort. If you feel the comment implied something else, could you explain how?

Dirk van Ulden

Dear Barb - it appears that there is more peace than ever and the term hate has been spiked. But that does not fit your narrative.

Barb Valley

Dear Dirrk - Really?

Dirk van Ulden

Barb - the reason I responded is that you are a classical 'downer' as if the majority of us is not at peace. It is apparently human behavior that seeks differences some of which have now been escalated to hate as opposed to dislike and disagreement.. Hate is a very strong word and should be used with caution. You will find hate if you are looking for it but fortunately most of us see peace. Hate mongering is a human aberration and that is what Matt is projecting. Merry Christmas to you and yours.

Barb Valley

Dirk - I have never been called a “downer”, classic or otherwise before. I was referring to the world, not you or anyone else. The Civil War was going on when Longfellow penned his poem – no peace. Today there are wars and unrest in many parts of the world - again no peace.

I don’t look for hate, Dirk; evidence of hate is in every newspaper and every newscast. I hate that young men die in wars that old men declare. I hate that children have to have active shooter drills in school.

Terence Y

Thanks for another well-timed and informative column today, Mr. Grocott. I was not familiar with the history of Longfellow’s “Christmas Bells” poem but it’s now in the memory banks for trivia night or should I qualify for Jeopardy. Have a Merry Christmas!

Tafhdyd

Mr. Grocott,

I understand you are not interested in the "Black Friday" name explanation but as long as no one has offered to toss it into the comments I will.

The most common thought about Black Friday since the sixties and seventies has been that with the huge number of shoppers, retailers would make enough income to go from being in the "red" to making a profit and being in the "black". There are other reasons it is called that for a number of events going back to the 1800's. In 1869 there was a gold buying scandal which caused a stock market crash on September 24th.

Going back to the fifties and sixties many say Black Friday got its present name from the Philadelphia police when a combination of shoppers and tourists filled the streets causing traffic jams and accidents. Adding to the problem was the fact that the Army-Navy football game was played the same weekend. The police called it Black Friday because they had to work nearly around the clock that weekend. There are some myths also but isn't there always.

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