The soul of a place is its people. Its places as well. People and places build the familiar, and that creates a sense of home.
San Mateo County is a mutable place with some seeing it as a fading suburban paradise and others seeing it as growing office park. To longtime residents, the home is rapidly changing. To new residents, it may not be changing enough. There is tension in these sentiments, and often the focus is firmly on that, and nothing else.
And yet, it has been said that we have much more in common than we have differences. I find that to be largely true and if people can focus on listening rather than being heard, much can be gained. And one thing we all have in common here is the people and our places.
So with that in mind, I ask you, our readers, to give us some ideas on two topics — favorite places and everyday heroes. I say everyday heroes because it’s a way to refine it into one category rather than just people. Everyday people might be interesting because I firmly believe everyone has a unique and interesting story to tell, but it might be a bit random. By highlighting heroes, there is a focus. However, it doesn’t have to be hero in the traditional sense. Often we think of first responders or, lately, the military. That thinking is entirely justified. But it can be more. A teacher, a friendly coffee shop worker, someone who works behind the scenes not for recognition, but to make a difference. Someone who goes above and beyond. The Peninsula is filled with these people and we at the Daily Journal give them the attention they deserve when we can. After all, we are always thrilled to share our community triumphs. But there are always others. One of the pieces of our mission statement is that our pages belong to you, our readers, and we choose to reflect the diverse character of this dynamic and ever-changing community. So let us know who deserves a little attention. They may not seek it out, but the attention can provide inspiration to others.
The other topic, favorite places, might be easier. I have my own. The history museum in Redwood City. Town in San Carlos. Iron Gate in Belmont. Talbot’s Toyland in San Mateo. The levee in Foster City. Washington Park in Burlingame. O Sole Mio in Millbrae. Golden Gate National Cemetery in San Bruno. Orange Park in South San Francisco. Original Joe’s Westlake in Daly City. Linda Mar Beach in Pacifica. Pillar Point Harbor in Half Moon Bay. Duarte’s Tavern in Pescadero. This is not a complete list, but a sampling. There are open spaces, parks, funky neighborhoods, restaurants, pubs, bars, eateries, joints and others galore. San Mateo’s Central Park with Leon the Giraffe, the Japanese Garden and the train, Myung Dong Tofu Cabin, Jack’s of all kinds in San Bruno, Burlingame and San Mateo, the Ravioli House, the meat counter at Draeger’s, Fuji Sukiyaki on Third, hiking trails like Sawyer Camp, Edgewood Park or Mills Canyon, Copenhagen, Filoli, murals, coffee shops, libraries, quiet places, noisy places. ... I could go on and on. Too many to mention and I know I’ll think of more must-have mentions after this is printed.
I think we can all agree Talbot’s is the quintessential example of a special San Mateo place. When we wrote a story this summer about its 65th anniversary, many shared what made it so great. It’s entrenched in our childhood, it is thoughtfully stocked, it has friendly and helpful service, it’s community-minded, it’s local through and through and provides that little extra something — free gift wrapping. Not that this would ever happen, but if Talbot’s were to close, we might as well shut down San Mateo, because we would have lost.
So what are your favorite places? What deserves a little extra attention from us? What or who would you like to know more about? Send it our way and we will consider exploring it. With everyday heroes, try to provide some context and contact information. In doing so, we can help share a little with others what makes this area so special not just to you and me, but to everyone.
Now, isn’t that the point of a community?
Jon Mays is the editor in chief of the Daily Journal. He can be reached at jon@smdailyjournal.com. Follow Jon on Twitter @jonmays.
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GREAT article and ideas…
San Mateo is and will continue to be a ‘suburban paradise’. Land locked San Mateo and the R1’s that make up the majority of the land area will continue to be.
Sure, there will hot spots throughout SM to address the human societal need for ‘growth’ (as all metrics of measure for our human existence are based on growth…cost of money, GDP, employment rate, inflation, etc, etc)
For to stifle growth…is to create a stagnant city that will have neighboring cities become parasitical to our negated growth potential and actual). We need to have a vision of controlled growth with new, 21st Century metrics…move away from a car centric mindset of LOS to a more pedestrian/bicycle/public-transit oriented city plan…within our ‘General Plan’
San Mateo County Historical Society has a wonderful room in the County Seat and does have The City of San Mateo area, but not as detailed as I’d wish. Maybe a larger section at the San Mateo Main Library. The history of Arroyo Court, Darcy’s tunnel, the old Main Library and City of Paris next door to it, That Crystal Springs Dam was the tallest in the world for years…that Hoover Dam’s design was modeled after Crystal Springs Dam, and too much to list here
That one of the main movie studio’s was located on the site where Woodlake Apartments are now. They why of the magnificent homes along North Idaho Street (producers, directors and actors of the silent film era)…or the Charlie Chaplin home that just sold this year. Silent films here ruined when ‘talkies’ became the next gen movies, and the freight train horns blowing in ruination of that site for movies
Yes, Talbot’s is a San Mateo institution to me…as my bike shop since 1st bike dad bought me in the 1950’s
Another point of ‘community’…go down to S Calif and ask someone where their town center is. After asking/explaining the why and metrics…mostly point to a large shopping mall or strip mall. In San Mateo, most everyone will point to one of our two “Down Town’s”…AKA small town USA look and feel
For people…Sue Lempert’s article of Dorothy Boyajian is a great example of a local individual that has touched and made immense numbers of citizens in a positive way. The three ladies who has made a huge difference in North Central….Claire Mack, Dorothy Chow and Bertha Sanchez.
SM has many world famous. Barry Bonds, Lynn Swann, Tom Brady, Merv Griffin, Kris Kristofferson, Alicia Silverstone, John Larroquette, Barry Bostwick, YouTube and a big ETC…
There are many, many, many more
Not a place nor a person but a program: The City of San Mateo Community Development Program/First Time Homebuyers.
Fifteen years ago I was a single parent with custody of three minor children. I got on the waiting list to purchase a home through the City of San Mateo Community Development Program. For the past twelve years (yes, I was on that waiting list for over three years!) I have had the distinct pleasure of living in the condo I purchased through the First Time Homebuyers Program.
As all programs are only as effective as the people running them, I would like to point out two: Renee Daskalakis was the ever helpful Sales Administrator for the City of San Mateo. And Sandra Belluomini handled all the details for the City of San Mateo.
I remain thankful every day that such a wonderful program and great people have made it possible for me and my family to continue to prosper in this great city in the heart of the Peninsula.
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