Editor,
I would like to respond to Mr. Aadahl’s letter on Aug. 24, regarding religionists. Mr. Aadahl believes religionists should “mind their own business” on abortion and some books that should be banned.
Editor,
I would like to respond to Mr. Aadahl’s letter on Aug. 24, regarding religionists. Mr. Aadahl believes religionists should “mind their own business” on abortion and some books that should be banned.
We all have many opinions, like Mr. Aadahl, whose letters we read at least once a week in this paper. Mr Aadahl believes that if a person voices an opinion against abortion, they are religious. I have numerous friends, who are against abortion on demand, and are left leaning nonreligious Democrats. They/I believe life starts at conception. If we voice our opinion for the sanctity of life, like Mr. Aadahl voices his against it, why can’t we both voice our opinions in something we believe in? Some people felt that slavery was OK, should people have just “minded their own business” or said something knowing it was wrong?
Here is some truth to our opinion. If a woman is pregnant, at any stage, and is murdered, the killer gets charged with a double homicide. If that same woman is killed by a drunk driver, the driver is charged with two counts again. It seems that our judicial system believes that a baby in the womb is a life, but you and many people believe a woman has the right to abort that life. I am not talking about rape, incest or the life of the mother. The book ban is on sexual explicit material that is in elementary schools, not a ban for adult readers.
Charles Bonnici
Burlingame
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(33) comments
Of course, someone who kills both a woman and the fetus inside her, should be charged with double murder, - and why not? But that has nothing to do with a woman’s right to control her own body, and whatever is inside her. That’s no one else’s business, nor anybody else’s business why she had to make a personal decision that must have been difficult, no matter what, and regardless of what some other people believe. None of their business!
Jorge, your opinion is contradicting. You consider killing a fetus murder only if it is someone other than the mom who kills the fetus or whatever is inside her. This lack of consistency is what makes you a democrat, and you most likely want it both ways so you can appear to be reasonable. And pray tell, please provide the wisdom as to why someone should be charged with murder if they unintentionally kill a fetus or whatever?
You right-leaning guys are all alike. All Jorg wrote was, it is none of anyone else's business if a women wants an abortion. You guys twist everything around and make a big deal about you guys being the only ones right and very one else, including Jorg, is always wrong. That doesn't work here in America. You have your opinion and Jorg has his opinion. Leave at that. Jorg didn't lose the debate, because it wasn't debatable in the first place. What the heck were you thinking Not So Common?
Mike I am glad someone from the Jorgidian cult has joined the conversation. Jorge, said that if a woman is killed / murdered with a fetus intact, the perpetrator SHOULD SHOULD be charged with double murder. Thus by admission, Jorge admits the fetus is alive, because no one can kill / murder someone, who is not alive.
Hello, Jorg
I think we can agree when the abortion issue starts to become a series of rhetorical salvos hurled by one extreme position against the other side that it becomes nigh on impossible to reconcile the differences between the extremists' positions.
I feel the middle ground in this debate can be found in the majority of Americans who believe early term abortions should be permitted and at the same time believe late term abortions should not be permitted. The absolutist position of no abortions, and the other extreme of abortion upon request without restrictions are both clearly outside that middle ground.
The absolutist who opposes abortion is outside that middle ground. A pro-abortion advocate can find him or herself outside that middle ground, too. Are you outside that middle ground? Are you advocating for abortion upon request at any time during a pregnancy? Do you believe there should be a limitation on aborting a human being that is viable outside the womb?
I have already written enough about this issue, Ray. Nothing else to elaborate on, nor has abortion ever been a personal issue.
Jorge, in other words, you have lost the debate, and you know you’re only going to dig an even a bigger hole So you’ve decided to put your tail between your legs and give up.. By the way, you were the one who brought it up.
Ray;
Good response! Thanks.
Hello, Michael O
I'm just settling in after spending the afternoon and early evening down on the Farm watching Stanford beat Cal Poly 41-7.
When it comes to DJ readers, I think they can move the needle on this issue and find some of the common ground mentioned in your LTE last month if everyone clearly defines their terms. My sense of it is that most of the folks on the right side of the aisle do not oppose abortion during the first trimester. Oh, I'm sure there might be some "Abortion Never!" absolutists out there, but they are keeping their heads down. Where the other folks (non-absolutists) on the right side of the aisle draw the line where abortions should be restricted depends on where they feel legal abortions should be limited... that seems to be somewhere in that middle ground described in my earlier post.
I hope I'm correct in assuming that most of the folks on the left side of the aisle do not align themselves with the extreme position that advocates for abortion upon demand at any time during a pregnancy. Are those readers on the left side of the aisle somewhere near that middle ground? IDK
I have asked some left leaning readers if they support the extreme position of abortion upon demand at any time during a pregnancy... they did not respond. They did not define their terms. Might they feel like they "lost" the debate if they confirm their position is somewhere in that middle ground? IDK Might they feel they would be painted with the broad brush used by Bill Maher to describe pro-choice advocates... and they don't want to be associated with an extreme position on the issue? IDK
Maybe the needle can be moved on this issue if the persons on the extreme right side AND extreme left side of the debate can be drawn toward that middle ground.
The fundamental point here is the child is NOT her own body - it is a separate body. Your logic is absolutely pathetic.
It is not a CHILD ,LittleFoot, it is a FETUS and a part of her own body, - and nobody else's business what she can do with her own body!
But Jorge, then why can someone be charged with a double murder, which YOU, YOU, YOU, stated if a fetus is only a part of a woman's body? Do you remember your own words or do you have Joe Biden dementia? In this game of chess and reality, you blew it. Your own words show and prove that the fetus is a separate person.
Jorge said, verbatim "Of course, someone who kills both a woman and the fetus inside her, should be charged with double murder, - and why not?" Great point Jorge, killing a fetus is MURDER, no matter who does it.
Not So Common and LittleFoot – ten gallon hat tips to you both for the tag team trap (intended or not). After reading this thread, I almost fell off my chair, ROFL. I envision Jorg triggering a giant mousetrap and now being pinned with arms and legs flailing while at the same time thinking why he didn’t cop out and write, “I have already written enough about this issue. Nothing else to elaborate on, nor has abortion ever been a personal issue.” That would have been the better move but we all know Jorg relies more on emotion and misplaced pride than logic, as you’ve both shown. BTW, Not So Common, I love the apt “Jorgidian cult” descriptor. I hope it’s okay if I borrow it every now and then.
LOL you are an absolute lunatic brother. So riddle me this - when exactly is the singular point that a "fetus" becomes a child? And you flip flop between saying "inside" and "part of her body" - it cant be both. Maybe you dont even remember what you type anymore - who even cares what you think. I really dont take any joy in putting morons in their place - but Jorg you should realistically never speak again after this.
So, what about a heart, or liver, LittleFoot? Inside someone's body, or a part of the body? Can't be both, at least according to Trumpian logic?
Good afternoon, Jorg
You know... there is a state considering abortion upon demand up to 18 weeks with provisions to obtain an abortion up to week 22 in cases of severe medical risk. However, abortions beyond that point for viable fetuses would not be permitted.
I would be OK with abortion upon demand up to 18 weeks plus exceptions up to the 22-week mark. Would you?
Oh, yeah... where is this place considering such an abortion policy?
Norway.
When there are 2 hearts inside of one body - what does that mean Jorg? Thats a rhetorical question btw - and I genuinely do not want a response from you. Your last comment demonstrated how far gone you are. RIP Jorg.
A little quibble with using the the language of the left- curating a school library for age appropriate material with literary value is in no way a "ban". The near-pornographic books such as "Gender Queer" or "This Book is Gay" (removed from the BIS library 2 years ago when then principal deemed inappropriate for 11-14 year olds) are still available at bookstores, Amazon and public libraries. Jorg or anyone are free to obtain such material to do a nightly read-aloud with children or grandchildren should they desire.
Thanks for a great letter, Mr. Bonnici. You must remember that logic isn’t really in Mr. Aadahl’s wheelhouse – Jorg’s (and only Jorg’s) opinion is what counts as logic in his book. Unfortunately for Mr. Aadahl, it appears just about everyone else has banned Mr. Aadahl’s book from their libraries – and for good reason. Don’t forget, Mr. Aahdal thinks he knows much better than the thousands (tens of thousands?) of judges who have ruled on the Second Amendment or the Electoral College to the detriment of Jorg’s opinions. That tells you all you need to know.
Terrence, of course you can borrow the term "Jorgidian cult," oddly his followers seem to be growing. Great description of Jorge getting strung up in his own mouse trap.
If someone takes a baseball bat to the life-support equipment of a patient awaiting a kidney transplant and they die as a result, that might be considered an act of murder. (In this case an inanimate object represents a woman, which the commenters on this thread should totally be able to relate to.) If someone refuses to donate a kidney to that patient, that would not be an act of murder. If someone legally required you to donate a kidney, that would be wrong.
(Not that I agree with you that a microscopic scrap of tissue is a "person.")
Also, you might want to read up on the definition of book ban, cause you seem a little confused about it.
Westy, you’re not making sense no matter how we slice your argument. A woman isn’t an inanimate object (maybe you can relate to that in your world but nobody else can) so your analogy is invalid. Please try again. Please take into account Mr. Bonnici’s LTE. You may also want to re-read the comments below.
According to you a woman is not a person. She is a thing who can be forced to serve as an incubater fro your baby.
Westy, your faux outrage is affecting your writing. What is an “incubater fro”? Regardless, why are you trying to force your narrow opinion of women on others? That may be how you feel about yourself and other women to try to make your argument valid but trust me, your argument still doesn’t make sense. Slow down and please try again.
My dear Terence, I am quoting you. In another thread you said explicitly that women and girls are baby making machines. Machines are things. When you enslave people, i.e. by taking from them their bodily autonomy and forcing them to carry pregnancies, you are, de facto, declaring them as things.
My dear Westy, I’m honored (flattered actually) that you pay such close attention to my comments. What you’ve conveniently forgotten is that I was responding to your hysterical screeching while also reminding you that men don’t give birth. Your argument remains flawed because it is still based upon you forcing your beliefs on others. Please try again. And to follow Ray Fowler’s lead, one more time…So what is an “incubater fro”?
Hello, Westy
In the comments following David Nakamura’s 9/5/24 LTE, “Imaginary middle ground,” you claimed that my middle ground in the abortion debate was a position that would deny health care to pregnant women in crisis and deny access to Levonorgestrel, the Plan B morning after pill. Your characterization of my position does not match what I have posted several times in these pages.
Let me clarify. I have stated many times in DJ posts that I agree with the 70% of Americans who believe abortion in the first trimester should be permitted and who also believe abortion in the third trimester should be prohibited unless there is a medical condition compelling the termination of a pregnancy. I responded verbatim to your 9/5/24 claim with the following:
The middle ground is the majority of Americans who believe early term abortion should be permitted and late term abortion should not be permitted. The absolutist position of no abortion and the other extreme of abortion upon request without restrictions are both clearly outside that middle ground. Are you outside that middle ground? Are you advocating for abortion upon request at any time during a pregnancy? Should there be a limitation on aborting a human being that is viable outside the womb?
You did not respond.
IMO the extremists on both sides of the abortion issue are the ones who make it seem impossible for you, me and everyone else to start seeing a middle ground on this issue. The left side of the aisle does not lose the debate if some of those left leaning folks confirm their position is somewhere in that middle ground. What should we make of those who lean a lot further left? Is it possible they refrain from confirming they are outside that middle ground to avoid being painted with the broad brush used by Bill Maher to describe pro-choice advocates... and they don't want to be associated with an extreme position on this issue? It’s just my opinion, but I find it beyond sad that some progressives have selected termination of the lives of unborn children as the centerpiece of their ideology.
I will ask again. Are you outside that middle ground? Are you advocating for abortion upon request at any time during a pregnancy? Should there be a limitation on aborting a human being that is viable outside the womb?
Ray, the democrats keep fighting an imaginary problem, abortion. Last year, after the Supreme Court ruling, there were more abortions than the previous year. Consequently, access and ability to abort is not a real issue. Women will always be able to abort, men will never be able to abort, and there really is no middle ground and or compromise since a life is being taken. That being said, mankind is not going to stop aborting babies because Satan is alive and well. But in the end God will be the final arbiter.
And thank you for making the point that you would like to force your narrow religious views on others. Other religions prioritize the choices, health, future ability to reproduce, and potential for death of the pregnant person. You priorize incubating a fetus which may or may not even be viable.
Hi Ray, This is way more words than I have time to read. But let me repeat--the middle ground was Roe v Wade, which allowed for restrictions during the third trimester.
Good morning, Westy
Fair enough. It was a lot of words, but it took a lot of words to refute a false claim about my position on a topic where we do find a lot of words being said.
So, I'll reduce to it all to a lot fewer words... Are you outside the middle ground? Are you advocating for abortion upon request at any time during a pregnancy? Should there be a limitation on aborting a human being that is viable outside the womb?
Ray, the term "abortion on demand" means that a woman or girl does not need the permission of the government, her husband, or her father to get an abortion.
People do not carry pregnancies into the third trimester and then lightly ask for an abortion--that scenario may occur on rare occasion but mostly is just a right-wing propaganda lie to gin up emotion.
Late stage abortions are almost always done for very good reasons, and you can't actually parse those reasons into legislation in order to decide for her if her life or health are enough at risk or if the fetal damage passes a certain threshold of viability. It is a very personal and difficult decision and should remain with the pregnant person, with her doctors freely able to give their best advice and care without risking prison time.
One more time... Are you advocating for abortion upon request at any time during a pregnancy? Should there be a limitation on aborting a human being that is viable outside the womb?
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